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Boarding School Associations
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2 Types of Schools
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Parents and Boarding Schools
The boarding school doesn't replace a parent. The school is more
like a sibling, or a mentor. Partnering with parent, the school
reinforces the parent's voice. On the other hand, the boarding school
can relieve the parent from having to constantly "enforce the
rules." This may enable the parent to relate from what both
parent and student find a more pleasant position.
A single parent, in particular, may find boarding school a mutually
attractive option. Yet, the single parent is often most concerned about
the appearance of this suggestion.
How, the single parent worries, will child will see it? The parent
doesn't want to be seen as wanting the child "out of the way." Or
as saying the child "interferes" with the parent's job or social
life. The parent may even feel guilty. Not wanting to appear
insensitive, to the single parent it can seem there is no appropriate
way improve the child's educational opportunities. The child's
counselors and boarding school itself can help work though this issue.
Often the parent is far more concerned than the child is about such
appearances.
Where the child lacks a male role model, boarding schools may enable the student to choose from a wide range of
them.
Likewise parents enrolling a child into a specialty boarding school
often times feel bad sometimes feeling that they had failed their child
as a parent, ironically almost universally the opposite is true these
parents are so dedicated to their child's sucess that they are willing
to spend Harvard tuition rates to give their child the professional
assistance that they need. Some specialty boarding schools have
excellent motivational and awareness coaches that conduct workshops and
educational seminars for the parents of these once struggling teens the
parents are not spectators in their childs growth and development they
act as active participants. As the child progresses they parent (s) and
child have opportunities to re-bond and oftentimes the student will
thank their parents for holding them to higher standards and
sacrificing much energy, financial resources, time for their behalf.
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